We found out this morning that a good friend of ours, Duane, passed away last night. I have spent much time this morning reflecting on the life he lived as well as the impact the Calder's example has had on our family.
We unfortunately have only known the Calder's for 2 years now. In that time we had the opportunity to have them in our Gospel Principles Class and got to know them on a much more intimate level than I think we would have had the opportunity for otherwise. The class was small and consisted of maybe 12 to 15 people at the largest. We shared a lot of personal stories and experiences which enabled everybody in the class to feel the spirit so strongly with each lesson. I witnessed first hand the strength of the Calders as they have endured Duane's health problems and words can not express how grateful I am to have had those moments to learn of Duane's testimony of the gospel. In the face of so much trial he showed strength of character in all that he did. I know The Lord was pleased with his continual efforts.
I have wondered today what I could do to help them. I am struggling with feeling like we are not close enough for me to just stop by and yet there must be something that I can do to show my love and support for their family. More than anything my prayers are with them. I have thought about the scriptural references to taking care of the widowed and I know that now is our time as a community to step up. To help financially, emotionally and spiritually. To look out for the well being of this incredible family not just in the present but to help Kristin raise her beautiful daughters. It comes down to the adage that it takes a village to raise a child. Now so more than ever.
Thank you Duane for a beautiful life lived and thank you Kristin and girls for standing stalwart amidst one of the biggest trials a family can face. You inspire my family immensely. We love you so much.
We unfortunately have only known the Calder's for 2 years now. In that time we had the opportunity to have them in our Gospel Principles Class and got to know them on a much more intimate level than I think we would have had the opportunity for otherwise. The class was small and consisted of maybe 12 to 15 people at the largest. We shared a lot of personal stories and experiences which enabled everybody in the class to feel the spirit so strongly with each lesson. I witnessed first hand the strength of the Calders as they have endured Duane's health problems and words can not express how grateful I am to have had those moments to learn of Duane's testimony of the gospel. In the face of so much trial he showed strength of character in all that he did. I know The Lord was pleased with his continual efforts.
I have wondered today what I could do to help them. I am struggling with feeling like we are not close enough for me to just stop by and yet there must be something that I can do to show my love and support for their family. More than anything my prayers are with them. I have thought about the scriptural references to taking care of the widowed and I know that now is our time as a community to step up. To help financially, emotionally and spiritually. To look out for the well being of this incredible family not just in the present but to help Kristin raise her beautiful daughters. It comes down to the adage that it takes a village to raise a child. Now so more than ever.
Thank you Duane for a beautiful life lived and thank you Kristin and girls for standing stalwart amidst one of the biggest trials a family can face. You inspire my family immensely. We love you so much.
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